Online dating has opened up a world of possibilities, but not everyone on dating apps has good intentions…Whether you’re looking for a meaningful relationship or just dipping your toes into the dating pool, it’s essential to stay alert to the warning signs.
Here are the biggest dating app red flags you should never ignore.
1. Their profile is bare or feels off
A few blurry photos, a one-word bio, or vague answers? These are signs they may not be serious—or worse, hiding something. A genuine dater will take the time to showcase their personality.
2. They want to move off the app immediately
If someone insists on taking the conversation to WhatsApp or another platform straight away, proceed with caution. Scammers and catfishers often try to avoid app safety measures. A good rule? Stay on the app until you feel comfortable.
3. They avoid meeting in person
Chatting for weeks but they always dodge plans to meet? Whether they’re secretly in a relationship or not who they claim to be, this is a red flag. A real connection moves forward, not in circles.
4. Over-the-top compliments too soon
Getting showered with grand declarations of love within days? This could be love bombing—a manipulation tactic where someone rushes intimacy to gain control. A healthy relationship builds naturally, not overnight.
5. They only message late at night
If they only pop up at 11 p.m. with a “Hey, you up?” they’re likely not looking for anything serious. A genuine match will engage in meaningful conversations, not just late-night check-ins.
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6. Their stories don’t add up
First, they say they live in Cape Town, then they’re in Johannesburg. They’re ‘too busy’ to call but somehow always online. If their details keep shifting, trust your instincts—something isn’t right.
7. They pressure you for photos or personal info
Anyone pushing for intimate photos or sensitive details early on should send alarm bells ringing. A respectful person will never make you feel uncomfortable or rushed.
8. They speak negatively about their exes
If they constantly bad-mouth past relationships, it’s a sign they haven’t processed their baggage. A healthy dater takes responsibility and looks forward, not backward.
9. They have no social media (or it’s suspiciously empty)
Not everyone is active on social media, but if they refuse to share their full name or any details about their life, they could be hiding something.
10. You just have a bad feeling
Never underestimate your intuition. If something feels off—even if you can’t pinpoint why—it’s okay to step away. The right person will make you feel at ease, not anxious.
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